Every Sunday after church my mom comes over for lunch, we periodically go to our local preferred diner or I’ll make something, but i care about that my mom wants to come over after church however periodically I feel like I need time to do other things.
I’m never mad though, this is our time and if it’s only for a few hours of the week, then I need to make that time available, however he is 74 years old and I’m hoping he lives for another 74! The thing about my mom is that he requests that my central air conditioner is on before he comes over. She wants the condo to be at 64 degrees and it doesn’t matter what day it is. It’s odd because in the winter he still wants it at 64 degrees so there are times I have to turn the heater on however then I may have to turn the air conditioner back on to get it to 64 degrees. She is truly unique and he checks the temperature of the condo when he comes over. She legitimately checks the temperature control before he even greets me. It’s kind of odd that he wants to spend time with me however judges the temperature of my condo and won’t speak to me unless the condo is at 64 degrees. She is my mom so I’m not going to argue with her. I just like that he wants to see me… The unusual thing is that when my good friend and I are somewhere else, he doesn’t cherish the temperature. That’s entirely the only thing that bothers me.