I really respect my family members and I do my best to constantly listen to their opinions, however this can be difficult, because every one of us are severely diverse humans at the end of the day, and even with all of our shared genetic material, it seems care about every one of us see the world easily differently from a single another.
This is why I struggle to get along with my oldest brother at times, and i think that he means well, although he can be an severely pushy know-it-all when he thinks that he has the right answers to life.
This couldn’t be more evident than when he starts talking about my family’s ongoing challenges with pollen irritations and immune diseases. I do not think what happened when my husband and I got together, but every one of us produce the family that is plagued with illnesses; My brother is convinced that the root of our struggles is our indoor air handling system! For the past multiple years he has been trying to convince me to update our central heating and cooling plan to include air purification devices, HEPA air filters, and UV light disinfection appliances. I wish that I could afford all of these heating and cooling updates, but I’m tied up just trying to cover our dentist appointments and prescription flu symptom medications, and still, my brother is constantly sending me articles about air quality management and human health. I cannot tell you how multiple times he has commanded Heating, Ventilation, and A/C dealerships or unique heating and cooling servicemans when my kids were sick with the flu, then personally, I think our family health has more to do with genetics than our heating and cooling devices, but nothing I say will ever convince him that the air conditioner component and forced air heating system are innocent.