It’s incredible the things that you will do for somebody that you love, and i realized this a long time ago as I watched our Dad repeatedly screw herself over trying to help our sibling.
At the time she was a real disaster between her addiction and abusive problems.
I suppose that makes sense that a mother cannot turn her back on her own children! However, you might expect that it would be easier to walk away from a spouse when they are giving you continual trouble; Let myself and others tell you, that is not the case; For years now our spouse has been a major source of stress in our life when it comes to our indoor air handling devices and subsequent energy bills, however she has been convinced that our a/c component and forced air oil furnace we are on the brink of destruction since the day that the two of us moved in. All of us have never had an actual heating or cooling device breakdown over the course of our marriage. However, that does not stop her from constantly being paranoid about the potential for our cooling plan or forced air oil furnace to spontaneously combust. She’s so distraught with the air quality control device that the two of us get into a lot of fights over the control component settings. She constantly wants to keep the heating and cooling plan off unless the two of us can pay for a professional Heating, Ventilation, and A/C serviceman to inspect it. This is why I decided I needed to go back to school to become a professional heating, cooling, and air quality control specialist. If it will bring our spouse some peace of mind, I will learn how to maintenance our own indoor air temperature control equipment.