My boyfriend, Jim, plus I have been dating for about three years now long distance.
- Long distance has been hard, however I had genuinely started to get used to the distance.
However, about 6 weeks ago Jim got a job offer in the same neighborhood that I live in, so both of us thought it would be a great time for us to finally live in the same area. However, it has not been as straight-forward as both of us thought it would be originally, then jim plus I are genuinely thrilled, however I recognize both of us might have moved in together too hastily. I find myself getting aggravated with him over the dumbest things plus I can’t get over it. Last week, Jim changed the temperature on the control component without asking me plus I almost had a mental breakdown. Jim didn’t understand why I cared if he adjusted the control component because he said he is always way too hot with the temperature that I set the control component to. I like the heat to be turned on, however it turns out that Jim is always hot so he likes to keep the air conditioner running all the time… The worst section of it all is that I can’t sleep with the air conditioner running because I will be shivering all evening plus Jim can’t sleep with the heat on because he will be dripping with sweat. This Heating as well as A/C issue has become a major conflict in our relationship plus I am not sure that both of us are going to reclaim.