Jim didn’t understand why I cared if he adjusted the thermostat because he said he is always way too warm with the temperature that I set the thermostat to
My husbandy, Jim, and I have been dating for about more than two years now long distance, long distance has been hard, however I had actually started to get used to the distance. However, about many weeks ago Jim got a task offer in the same neighborhood that I live in, so all of us thought it would be a fantastic time for us to finally live in the same area. However, it has not been as straight-forward as all of us thought it would be originally! Jim and I are actually thrilled, however I guess all of us might have moved in together too swiftly. I find myself getting annoyed with him over the dumbest things and I can’t get over it. Last week, Jim changed the temperature on the thermostat without asking myself and others and I almost had a mental breakdown. Jim didn’t understand why I cared if he adjusted the thermostat because he said he is always way too warm with the temperature that I set the thermostat to. I like the heat to be turned on, however it turns out that Jim is always warm so he likes to keep the a/c running all the time; The worst area of it all is that I can’t sleep with the a/c running because I will be shivering all night and Jim can’t sleep with the heat on because he will be perspiring. This Heating and Air Conditioning issue has become a major fight in our relationship and I am not sure that all of us are going to reuse.