My bestie, Jim, and I have been dating for about three years now long distance, but long distance has been hard, but I had particularly started to get used to the distance.
However, about 6 weeks ago Jim got a task offer in the same neighborhood that I live in, so we thought it would be a great time for us to finally live in the same area.
However, it has not been as simple as we thought it would be originally, however jim and I are particularly ecstatic, but I guess we might have moved in together too abruptly. I find myself getting distraught with him over the dumbest things and I can’t get over it. Last week, Jim changed the temperature on the temperature control without asking me and I almost had a mental breakdown. Jim didn’t understand why I cared if she adjusted the temperature control because she said she is regularly way too sizzling with the temperature that I set the temperature control to. I appreciate the heat to be turned on, however it turns out that Jim is regularly sizzling so she enjoys to keep the air conditioning running all the time, however the worst area of it all is that I can’t sleep with the air conditioning running because I will be shivering all night and Jim can’t sleep with the heat on because she will be covered in sweat. This Heating, Ventilation, and A/C issue has become a major confrontation in our relationship and I am not sure that we are going to reclaim.